Summer Custody Schedules for Separated Parents

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In short

Summer is when many plans change shape: longer blocks with each parent, set vacation weeks, or week on, week off. The plans that work best lock in dates early, before camp sign-ups.

When it falls

Summer break follows the school calendar. In many US districts it runs about 9 to 12 weeks, from late May or June to August or early September. Write it as "from the day after the last day of school until 7 days before the first day of school" rather than fixed dates, and confirm the dates each spring.

Typical arrangements

Block schedule (2-3 week blocks)

Summer divided into 2-3 week blocks that each parent takes in turn. For a 12-week summer: Parent A: weeks 1-3. Parent B: weeks 4-6. Parent A: weeks 7-9. Parent B: weeks 10-12. Enables real vacation planning on both sides.

Extended weeks (2 weeks each, alternating)

Two-week blocks alternating through the summer. Long enough for real trips; short enough to maintain connection.

Modified school-year schedule + travel blocks

Regular custody schedule continues but both parents are allowed 1-2 week uninterrupted travel blocks with 60 days notice. Each parent specifies their travel weeks by mid-March.

50/50 alternating weeks

Week-on-week-off through summer. Simple if the regular schedule isn't already alternating weeks. Works best when neither parent plans extended travel.

Sample plan wording

Example wording to adapt, not legal advice. Use your own names, times, and places, and check what is required where you live.

Two-week blocks

During summer break, the children alternate between the parents in two-week blocks, exchanging at 6:00 p.m. on Sundays. Parent A has the first block in even-numbered years and Parent B in odd-numbered years. The regular schedule resumes 7 days before school starts.

Regular schedule plus vacation weeks

The regular schedule continues during summer. Each parent may take up to two vacation weeks of 7 consecutive days, giving written notice of the dates by April 1. If both choose the same week, Parent A's choice comes first in even-numbered years.

Week on, week off

From the first Sunday after school ends until the Sunday before school starts, the children alternate weeks between the parents, exchanging at 6:00 p.m. on Sundays.

What to decide in advance

The summer dates. Use the school calendar, and say when summer starts and when the regular schedule comes back.
A lock-in date. Pick a date, such as April 1, by which you both confirm the summer schedule and vacation weeks.
Vacation notice. Agree on how far ahead to share travel dates and what to include: where, how to reach the children, and the return date.
Camps and costs. Decide how you choose camps, whose time they fall in, and how the cost is shared.
Child care. If both parents work, plan weekday coverage, and decide whether the other parent gets the first chance to watch the kids before a sitter.
Pickup and drop-off. Long blocks mean fewer exchanges, so make each one clear. If there is a protection order, its terms on exchanges come first, and handoffs can happen at a safe public place or through a trusted third party.

By age

General guidance only. Every child is different, and what fits can change as they grow.

Under 5: Two weeks away from a parent can feel very long. One-week blocks or a midpoint visit often work better.
Ages 5 to 12: Two-week blocks and real vacations become realistic, and camps help structure weekdays.
Teens: Jobs, sports, and friends shape summer. Build around their commitments and include them in planning.

Common conflict scenarios

Summer camp registration due before summer schedule is set.

Many plans set a date, such as April 15, to lock in the summer schedule each year, so camp registrations can happen by the usual deadlines. Camp weeks count as the on-parent's time unless the plan specifies otherwise.

One parent wants to enroll the child in a multi-week overnight camp.

Many plans require both parents to agree before an activity uses the other parent's time. Camp costs are often treated like any shared extracurricular expense in the plan.

Frequently asked questions

How do we split summer in a 50/50 schedule?

Some families keep the regular 50/50 rotation and add vacation weeks. Others switch to week on, week off or two-week blocks for summer. Each keeps time roughly equal, so pick the one that fits travel, work, and camp.

What happens to holidays during summer?

If your plan lists holidays like the Fourth of July, the holiday schedule generally overrides the summer schedule for that day. Say whether a vacation week can include the other parent's holiday.

When should we decide the summer schedule?

Earlier than you think. Camp sign-ups often open in winter, so many families confirm summer by early spring.

Who pays for summer camp?

That's up to your plan. Many treat camp like other shared child costs, but only for camps both parents agreed to in advance.

Put it in your plan and on your calendar

In CoreParent's plan builder, the Vacations section holds your summer rules: the longest stretch a vacation can run, how many each parent can take per year, and how much notice to give. Vacation requests on the calendar are checked against those rules, and once your co-parent accepts one, it shows for both of you. Share it with your co-parent, or keep it to yourself.